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A couple years ago, Shay messaged me on Instagram. We stayed in touch over the years, and today—on Justin’s birthday—we got to meet in person. She texted me asking what I was doing today for Justin’s birthday, and I’m so grateful she did. I truly can’t think of a better person to spend the day with. After Justin died, I connected with a few widows here on Instagram, and those women helped carry me through some of my darkest days. I had so much love and support around me, but there’s something sacred about talking to someone who really understands—someone who’s lived that same kind of loss. When I heard about Tanner’s passing, my heart absolutely sank. It brought me right back to those first days and weeks without Justin—the fog, the pain, the disbelief. I wish no one ever had to feel that, and yet here we are. I’m so glad I could be with Shay today, even if just to sit in the heaviness with her. It’s the worst club to be a part of, but I’m grateful we don’t have to walk through it alone. Thinking of you, Shay. Go give her some love today—she’s carrying so much right now. 💔 @Tanner & Shay | Cancer Fight

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