colewherld

didn't expect that... 😳😬

This almost crushed our relationship… 😬❤️ Until I realized this ONE thing. I started working on my company OSSA.AI back in late 2022… Before that time, my long-distance girlfriend, Syd, and I had been used to seeing each other every 3 to 4 weeks. We were spending thousands of dollars on flights… And my life consisted of filming those Facetime videos, editing them, and showcasing Syd and I’s life. But here’s the thing. I have the type of personality where if I’m gonna do something… I’m gonna go all in – And quite frankly, I wasn’t clear with her from the start about how much time and attention building my company was gonna take. And it backfired. A few months ago, when I was visiting Syd in Chicago, it reached a breaking point. We were sitting in a coffee shop called Stans Donuts (by the way they have the best donuts in the world)… And we had to have an honest conversation. It was through this conversation that I realized what Syd’s main concern was… She didn’t want me to be so purely focused on the business that I wasn’t able to enjoy any time with her. And she was right. I was so focused on my business… That I forgot who has been my number one supporter from the start. So how did I actually solve this? I was honest with her. I told Syd the business is moving incredibly well… But I can’t give her some perfect timeline on when things will start operating and require me less. And there are things you love… And I think the best thing we can do is never try to remove those things from our life but find a balance. Long distance really multiplied the effects of this… Because whenever we see each other, it’s super hectic… I’m trying to wake up early, workout, and do a little bit of work… But she still wants to do things… And it’s always going to be finding balance and being honest with each other. My best advice to you - MANY times problems and relationships can be solved by sitting down and having a mature conversation. Follow for more life advice. :) #colewherld #cole

Here's the truth...😬❤️ #colewherld #coleandsyd #couples#relationships

Comment 'JOIN' and I'll send it you! ⬇️ If you’ve ever tried recording the screen on Facetime... You know the audio isn’t saved. Which doesn’t happen for privacy reasons. And that is annoying if you're tryna create content like I have. So what’s a way around it? You’re going to need two phones. The one you’re using to Facetime… And another one you’ll use to record the audio. Here’s what you do: 1. Open voice memos on your second phone. 2. Hold your second phone under your first phone. 3. Then hit record on both at the same time: 4. To screen record the Facetime conversation on your first phone… 5. And record the audio on your second phone via voice memos. That’s it. All that’s left is to sync your separately recorded audio to your video. You can use video editing apps like CapCut and Splice to do this. DM me on IG for access to my free Skool community. :) #skool #shortformcontent #recordaudioonfacetime #facetimeaudio #recordfacetime

here's the truth... ❤️

Do ya'll agree with me here?? 🤔 None of the gurus will tell you this... but you should let your girlfriend go on trips without you. And the reason why I do this might surprise you… Recently, everyone’s been asking me for relationship advice. Apparently, because I’ve fostered one of the most famous long-distance relationships, gaining over 4 billion views and 7 million followers from it, that gives me credibility to talk on the subject. So here I go… A lot of self-help gurus you most likely look up to online tell you that your significant other can’t go out with her friends or can’t go on a trip without you. But after having a successful long-distance relationship for the past three and a half years, I can confidently say they’re not correct. For those of you that don’t know, Syd speaks French, and France is her favorite place to visit. We’ve been wanting to travel there together for the past couple of years. But the timing just hasn’t worked out. Syd wanted to go this summer with me, but my main focus has been building my tech startup, OSSA.AI. And while I’d love to go to France… I’d rather buy a place there soon once my tech startup gets acquired by Mr. Zuck. So, Syd went to France last month. Now, you’d probably think: “Oh Cole, aren’t you worried that she’s gonna be going out without you?” “What about all the guys there?” Reasonable question for sure. But the reality is she’s always traveling with her mother, and the trust Syd and I have for each other is unbreakable. Yeah… I have made some mistakes and broken that trust along the way, but we’ve learned and moved on from it. The reality is a lot of these dudes online tell you that your girl can’t do anything without you around. But they live in a bubble where every girl’s flights, food, etc., are paid for by a bunch of rich dudes. My advice is ALWAYS to focus on yourself. If you’re high-value enough and a great partner, why would your girlfriend want to do anything to harm that? That’s the vibe we’re on... And a lot of internet gurus are just parroting the same message that makes zero sense. Tag your significant other if you agree. #relationships #couple #longdistance

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